Almost everybody gets stressed. At least, most of those who are taking responsibility of something especially when deadline is due any moment. It is rare for people who can calmly process things, thus, they can handle stress without getting flustered.
One of the ways to manage stress is to have time management under control. After beating some deadlines, it will also be good to have some wine once in a while. No need to go out to do that because it will only cause you more and possibly get you out of control especially if you are with someone else. Install your own bar and with your own Alston bar stools, the distance is short to your bedroom.